If you had something beautiful going with your ex…
And you know you could be great together…
Then it’s worth taking one more shot at rekindling the romance with him. Because an emotional connection like that doesn’t happen every day. It’s worth fighting for.
If you want to skip ahead to see what some people are calling the “one last shot formula,” crafted by relationship expert, James Bauer, then click here.
Otherwise, hang tight and I’ll explain how this works.
Pause for just a minute to answer this question.
What’s the one obstacle to getting back together with your ex? What’s the one thing getting in the way?
If you’re like most women James has consulted with, your answer would go something like this: “The biggest obstacle is getting past his emotional walls.”
You see, the problem isn’t making him love you again. Your history together proves there’s already enough chemistry. Nope. That’s not the problem.
Here’s the real problem.
He won’t consider it in the first place. He closed his mind to the possibility. And in many cases, he won’t even contact you.
I guess what it boils down to is this. He has already decided not to give you a chance.
That’s the barrier. That’s the emotional wall you’re up against.
But what if I told you it’s not so much of a wall as it is the illusion of a wall? What if it’s a barrier you can move past whenever you want once you know the secret?
That would change things, wouldn’t it?
Earlier, we said the biggest problem is that he’s already decided not to give you a chance. The key word there is “decided.”
But here’s the weird thing about the way humans make decisions. We don’t start with a decision.
Decisions are just the end result.
Decisions are just the output of a different kind of mental calculation.
Decisions come after the equals sign.
That’s why you can almost never change someone’s mind by going after the decision directly.
Think back to the last time you saw a person trying to change someone else’s mind. If they focused on attacking the decision itself, they almost certainly failed to change the other person’s mind.